Once I imagined that my man was dressed in a UPS uniform and had delivered a ‘package’ to my door. LOL, but seriously that is one of my recurring fantasies. I know what you are thinking, those brown uniforms are super duper hot, haha.

Fantasies are wonderful indeed. They allow you to step out of your comfort zone and real world and become, act or desire something you wouldn’t in your everyday life. Thank goodness for my very open, outgoing and sharing group of friends. Without them I would have probably written myself off as a freak for some of the stuff that pops into my head when I start thinking about sex.

Just how prevalent are sexual fantasies?

About five per cent of men and women say they have never had a sexual fantasy. Most adults say they first remember fantasizing between the ages of 11 and 13.

It is interesting to take note that the top 2 fantasies for both males and females are the same… having sex with an existing partner and receiving and giving oral sex Also interesting is that women list being watched by a voyeur as one of their top 10 fantasies and men say they would like to be the one doing the watching. How different our brains truly are. One thing that is constant though…

So who do you want to be tonight? Come on, mix it up a bit…