Do you fake it? Yes I am talking to you… and men- you are not excluded in this question. Research shows that both men and women fake orgasms. Why, why, why?

The two most common reasons women give for faking orgasms are to make their male partners feel better and to end sex when they are tired. Women report feeling like their male partners are not satisfied until they “give” their female partner an orgasm, thus sex will continue until the woman either has an orgasm, or fakes orgasm.

I see it this way, if you are tired just let him know to ‘wrap it up’. And if he needs an ego boost that bad… grow up! And for the men out there that are shaking their heads in the up and down direction to my above proposed question, there are other ways to satisfy her. Believe me, we like to mix it every now and then.

What is the best way to tell if your partner is faking it? Ask them. That is the only fail proof way to know. Even brain scans can be tricked during this situation. Better communication yields a better relationship, more trust and ultimately a more satisfied partner. Now get to talkin’ and if you need some help here are some suggestions on how to start your conversation.